Reciprocal links have become one of the MOST popular methods of getting backlinks for your website. Although we dont really recommend them, a lot of SEOs have found success with their 2-way / 3-way reciprocal link exchanges.

This tool helps you ensure that your link partners are linking back to your website. It also determines the anchor text used by your link partners to link to your website.

http://www.webconfs.com/reciprocal-link-checker.php